But as an employer, should this be something that worries you?
Apart from work performance, boyfriends can also lead to privacy issues and more if not managed properly. 🔏
There are certain expectations and standards of behaviour that maids are expected to adhere to.
Here are some tips on how to ensure that there will be no problems that arise!
Maintain Respect For Employer’s Privacy and Property
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Maids are expected to maintain professionalism and discretion in their personal relationships. 🧑🏫
Ensure they do not compromise the safety or security of the employer’s household (such as secretly bringing their boyfriends into the house).
Maids are entitled to personal time off and privacy during their rest days.
But set clear boundaries and expectations regarding their conduct outside of working hours.
It’s important that the safety and security of the household aren’t compromised. 🔑
Let’s face it, no one wants drama at home, right? 😅
Maid Work Performance Cannot Be Affected After Having A Boyfriend
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Employers may have concerns about the maid’s safety and the reputation of the household.
The maid’s personal life does not interfere with their job performance. ⭐
Make sure she is back home not too late at night if she starts work the next day.
What If My Maid Is Pregnant?
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If your domestic helper informs you about being pregnant or displays signs of pregnancy, conduct a proper test at a clinic. 🏥
In the event of a positive test, the maid is no longer allowed to work according to MOM rules and will have to be sent back.
Have a discussion with her and find her the next flight back home.
(💡Note: This episode could be very stressful for the maid, so be compassionate.)
Is Having Boyfriends Good Or Bad?
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While there have been employers that particularly forbid relationships, it is commonly not too big an issue.
Like all humans, companionship is very important. 🤗
At the same time, employers need to ensure that the privacy and security of the home are not jeopardized, especially if she wants to bring her boyfriend home.
As long as all parties respect the boundaries set, then it will be a harmonious home.
Be Interested In Your Maid’s Personal Life
Keeping the lines of communication open with your helper is key when discussing personal relationships and boundaries.
It’s super helpful to encourage your helper to share a bit about her social life, including any boyfriends or friendships in Singapore.
Being curious about her life also builds trust and keeps you in the loop about her life away from work. 🙌
You may have some concerns, but it’s crucial to respect your helper’s privacy and personal life, so it’s not too intrusive.
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