A controversy was stirred when an employer in Singapore showcased her maidās room.
In the video on Xiaohongshu, the employer proudly showed the setup and remarked how comfy it was. šļø
Yet she did not expect the online reactions. šØ
Many netizens criticise her for providing terrible living conditions for the helper.
Viewers were appalled by the lack of windows and space inside the maidās room
This episode sheds light on the humane and dignified treatment of domestic helpers.
Can The Maid’s Room Be In A Bomb Shelter?
Yes, it is possible especially if there are not enough bedrooms in the house.
While there is no law preventing this, it is not the best sleeping arrangement for any human.
It is for a bomb raid after all. š£
The employer in the video claims that the helpers’ rooms are always in the kitchen, which is also not true generally.
Singaporeans Unique View Of Cosy Living
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In the world of social media, many people like to share the glamorous part of their lives.
This incident shows that some things are not meant to be shared online or it will generate more backlash. š±
The expectations of modern comfort in Singaporeansā minds may be very different from other cultures.
While the employer does make an effort to improve the sleeping conditions of the room for her maid, it certainly falls short of what Singaporeans would consider as cosy.
Employers Should Be Transparent About A Maidās Room
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There is a constant chase for perfection to be shown online because it is so easy for viewers to criticise only.
The employer may have misjudged when she proudly called the room cosy.
However, her honesty should be appreciated and helped bring forward an important conversation. š
Who knows? She may improve the maidās room set up after the backlash!
How To Design a Maidās Room?
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For employers of domestic helpers, the video serves as a reminder that living conditions matter.
Ensuring your helper has a comfortable and respectful space can have a significant impact on their well-being and work performance.
Ensure There Is Enough Space For The Maid
While not all homes may have a dedicated maidās room, itās crucial to designate a private and comfortable space for your helper.
If your home lacks a separate room, consider sharing arrangements, such as allowing her to sleep in a family memberās room.
Or convert a corner of a common area into her sleeping space.
Ensure that the room or space is well-ventilated, with access to fresh air (or air-conditioning is even betterāļø).
Allocate space for her personal items such as a small wardrobe.
Provide Basic Amenities And Focus on Comfort
Your helper works long hours, often doing physically demanding tasks. š¤
Small touches of comfort can go a long way in making her feel appreciated and cared for.
Provide a proper bed with a comfortable mattress, pillows, and clean linens. (Avoid makeshift sleeping arrangements like sleeping on the floor or in cramped areas š„)
Give Her Privacy
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Respecting your maidās privacy is essential in fostering mutual respect and trust.
Give her a sense of ownership over her living space where she can have private moments to herself.
No CCTV cameras or other recording devices in her private spaces as regulated by the law.
Allow her to connect with family overseas by ensuring access to the internet. š„ļø
While itās reasonable to set limits on phone usage during work hours, make sure she has adequate time to use her phone during her breaks.
Add Personal Touches
Encourage her to personalize her space with a few belongings from home, such as family photos or cultural items that make her feel connected.
Let her choose simple decor items or accessories for her room.
Can Maid Sleep In Living Room In Singapore?
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Yes, maids can sleep in living rooms if it is not possible to provide them with a separate room.
But take note that there must be adequate space and privacy for her to rest in the living room.
If she is in a spot where everyone can see her, then the set up is wrong.
Every household wants to have a reliable maid with good work performance. ā
And part of the winning formula is to have a good resting space for her.
Invest in your maidās room and the result will be a long-term harmonious household.
Start setting up her room the right way today!
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